Honestly this episode should have been called “Poor Tiwa and Shalewa.” The script writers are messing with our emotions. This wasn’t our plan for this season. Tiwa and Mide were just supposed to jejely get married and live happily ever after, while Shalewa and Mohammed get engaged, and then we plan their wedding next season, period! But I guess the show reflects this thing called “life”; sometimes it throws things at you that you just wish undone so badly. On to the gist…
Tiwa’s reaction when Mide told her he had a child was everything. You could tell it so pained her to her bones. Like why why why Mide, did you go and have a full blown child? It’s easy for us to dismiss it as a non-issue because it happened before Mide started dating Tiwa and he only just got to know about this son. But in reality, it’s a lot more. There are these “extras” that Tiwa now has to deal with.
Now, it’s gone from just planning a wedding and figuring out life as a newlywed, to dealing with a blended family, being a mother, dealing with the presence of another woman somewhere in the background, managing finances with child support, and possibly much more. I think she should take her time to process the information and move or even cancel the wedding if need be; everyone will be just fine.
So on top of all this, my question for Tiwa is – “why did you go home right after having that conversation with Mide?” Like you already know how overly extra and insensitive your mother is. Poor Tiwa couldn’t even get the chance to process everything and sob in peace.
All Iya Tiwa is concerned about is the wedding aso-ebi, and inviting the entire universe for the wedding. Sometimes, I really wish she would just pause for a second and observe. Can we talk about her guest list though? Or her lack of one I should say. At this point, she is pretty much inviting the entire nation. The list didn’t even have names of people; it was a list of groups of people. Kilode? I’m not here for that extraness.
Tiwa and Mide had an argument and they may have said things they didn’t mean to each other. Somehow, I’m not mad about that. I’m just glad they are actually having a conversation about the matter. Communication is so important. I think they are on track to figuring this out.
Oh Shalewa. I may have shed a tear or two for her when she got the news about Mohammed’s “wife”. Such a harsh way to find out. It’s unfortunate the things that happen in the name of “tradition” and “culture”. Seyi knows how I roll my eyes at the phrase “that is how things are done”. It’s good to acknowledge tradition and culture, but also think – perhaps could there be a better way of doing this? Anyway, Shalewa, if it remotely makes you feel better, we saw you over there just looking like hot faya.
Okay, is it still too early to conclude that Derin is evil? When can we stop giving her the benefit of doubt. I can maybe rationalize her being mean to others, but intentionally doing something that will hurt your own brother? How much more evil can a person get? Let her continue, this thing called “life” will soon call her to order.
They keep teasing us with our favorite actors. First, they got us excited for Akah Nnani, and then he vanished. Now, it’s Denola Grey and Sophie Alakija. We will sha enjoy them before they take them away again. Denola was obnoxiously annoying in his role sha, but it’s Denola, gotta love him still.
As always, let me know your thoughts below. Cheers!
*All photos are from ndannitv.